Finding Direction in Life: 4 Books for When You Don’t Know What’s Next

Four books this month, and I didn’t set out to pick a theme. Somewhere around the third one, I realized they were all pushing against the same idea: that you’re supposed to know exactly where you’re going before you start. I’ve spent enough of my life thinking I needed to figure things out first. These … Read more

The July Record: Afraid and Going Anyway

View of the Chicago skyline from the Chicago River during an architecture boat tour.

Looking back, July felt like a month of doing things a little afraid, a little unprepared, and going anyway. We took our first Amtrak trip and weren’t sure how any of it would go.Tom sent a message to a band we’ve loved for years and didn’t expect anything back.I wrote about two of the hardest … Read more

What We’re Reading in July: Four Books About Not Waiting

What We're Reading July 2026

Here’s what we’re reading in July 2026 — and I’ll be honest, I didn’t notice these four had anything in common until I’d finished all of them. They all ended up pushing me in the same direction. Die With Zero — Bill Perkins I almost skipped this one because I assumed it was mostly about … Read more

What We’re Reading in May (And Why These Four Books at This Particular Moment)

May 2026 Books

May feels like the right month to talk about what’s been on the nightstand — and these four books for midlife readers landed at exactly the right time. Not because I have a reading program or a books-per-month goal. Just because these four have been sitting with me lately and each one hit differently — … Read more

March Reading List: 4 Books That Make You Want to Move Again

March Reading

This March reading list is built for a very specific moment in the year. March is a strange month. You’re not in winter survival mode anymore — but you’re not at full momentum either. The days get longer.Your body starts asking to move again.But pushing too hard too fast is usually what burns people out. … Read more